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Irresistible Change – A Blueprint for Earning Buy-In and Breakout Success

Posted on January 11, 2026 by topWriter

Author: Phil Gilbert

_Phil Gilbert_

Reading time: 20 minutes

Synopsis

Irresistible Change (2025) explains why big changes in companies often fail because of how people work together. It shows a new way to make changes, like selling a product. It’s about making people want to join in, instead of just telling them they have to. This helps changes last for a long time.


What’s in it for me? Master the essential strategies that drive lasting organizational transformation.

People don’t dislike new ideas. They stop change because they don’t trust how it’s done, the leaders, or what will happen. If leaders just tell everyone to change, people will not trust the process.

To build trust, you need a different way. Show change as something good that teams *want* to use. First, show it works well with one team. Then, ask others to join. In the end, make it like a special club that everyone wants to be part of. Not just another project that makes people feel bad. 

Put new ways of working into your company’s daily systems and rules. Don’t just teach it in classes that people will forget. This makes changing easier than staying the same.

This is how real change happens. Not by forcing, but by earning trust. So, if you want to make change exciting for everyone in your company, this summary is for you.

Blink 1 – Change is hard for everyone

Company changes often fail. The reason is simple. Most leaders think they can just tell people to change from the top. They tell everyone about a new plan, send staff to training, and hope for big changes. 

But people don’t like being told what to do. They go slowly, pretend to follow new rules, and go back to old ways when leaders stop watching. The problem is not that people hate change. It’s that leaders do change projects the wrong way. They treat change like a rule, not like a product they need to convince people to buy. This makes a big difference.

Think about a product or service you chose to use recently. Maybe it was a new app, a movie service, or a tool that helped you work better. You used it because it fixed a problem and made your life easier or better, not because your boss told you to. You chose it because it was clearly useful.

Changing how people work in a company is the same. If you want people to use new ways of working, treat your change project like a new, important product launch. Be just as careful and organized. This means someone owns it, leaders have a plan, and everyone is responsible. Think of your company as a market. Your teams are customers you need to convince to ‘buy’ the change.

In this market, your teams are not problems. They are people who will only accept your change if it solves their problems so well that staying the same seems harder. Here’s a strange idea: staying the same often doesn’t work well. Old systems are broken, work is slow, and results are bad. But company culture is strong and keeps people doing things the old way. People stay with what they know, even if it’s not good.

So, you need to show people that changing is actually easier than failing again and again. You need to make change so good that people can’t say no to it. When people choose to change instead of fighting it, more people will join in naturally. Teams will talk. Good news will spread. Things will start moving forward.

This is not about tricking people or using smart ads. It’s about knowing that just telling people things won’t change a company at all. Real change needs talking often with your current company culture. You need to truly understand what people need. Give them real help, and earn their trust, one team at a time.

Blink 2 – Build one chair

Starting small might seem like a bad idea if you want to change a whole company. Leaders usually want fast, big results. So they start huge projects. They start programs for everyone, have big launch parties, and announce huge changes for all teams at once.

And they almost always fail.

The problem is not wanting to do big things. It’s trying to do too much before you know if your idea really works. You give a little bit to many teams, instead of a lot to a few. It’s like designing a whole house before building one chair that actually works.

A better way is to start fully, but with a small group. Pick one team and give them all they need to do well. Give them expert help and all tools to change how they work. Then check if it truly gives better results. 

Can the chair hold weight, or does it collapse under pressure? 

Don’t mix up growing big with starting small. This means showing your idea works before you try it for the whole company. Manage your change project like you would launch a new product. Allow yourself a year to get it right. Do research. Get ideas from your first teams. Make your work better. Improve what you offer based on what real users say.

It’s very important to work with full project teams. If you teach change without real team projects, three problems often happen. First, people go to training, forget what they learned, and don’t change how they work. Second, they guess how new ideas fit their projects, get it wrong, and then don’t want real change. Third, and worst, they get excited, try new ideas without help, make mistakes, cause problems, and then blame the change project.

Full teams avoid these problems because they use new ways of working right away on real tasks. They get expert help all the way. They show clear business results that prove your change is good. And when they do well, they become your helpers for change.

You must do everything for these first teams. Give them full support. Celebrate their successes. Tell everyone in the company about their good results. Show proof that your way works and brings real results. Only then can you safely expand to more teams, knowing your ‘furniture’ will actually work when people use it.

Blink 3 – Premium branding drives premium results

You might think branding is just about looks. It might seem only for products you buy, not for changes inside a company. But this idea will stop your change before it even starts.

Branding is not something you can skip. People want to trust a brand. Trust helps new ideas and changes happen. Without a clear brand, your change plan will just be another company project that staff will politely not follow.

First, choose a good name. It should work everywhere and not have hidden meanings. Don’t use words that already mean something bad or make people doubt. Words like ‘transformation,’ ‘agile,’ or ‘innovation’ have a history of failed projects. When people hear them, they remember all the failed projects that used those words.

Instead, pick a simple name that can hold your values. The name should be empty so you can fill it with meaning for your company. Your actions, results, and good name will give it meaning. Later, the brand will stand for excellent teamwork.

Good branding creates a ‘country club effect’. When something is special, more people want it. When being part of it shows you are good and achieve things, teams want to join. When they see these special projects do well and hear good stories from others, they want to be part of something that means quality and high standards.

Your brand does more than just give a nice name. It brings order, importance, and growth. It brings many different projects together under one name. So, people can see that real change is happening steadily across the whole company. When different teams in different places all use the same brand, it shows that change is moving forward and is real.

As you have more of these special projects, they will cover different people, technologies, and problems. But they will all have one thing in common: they will use a new way of working with a known high quality. The brand links them all.

Here, being strict is very important. You must protect your brand by saying no. If teams want to join but don’t meet your quality rules, say no to them. If leaders ask you to use your limited help on projects not part of your brand, say no. If you spread your brand over work that isn’t good enough, it harms your results and your good name.

Top brands stay good because they choose carefully. Your change project should do the same.

Blink 4 – Hacking the culture code

Teaching people new skills won’t change your company much. 

This might seem strange, but it’s a key truth about change. You can send all staff to the best training, but after six months, most will work the same as before. Company culture always stops new skills from being used.

The reason is simple. Companies are like systems. These systems are made to keep things as they are. Your company’s culture works through many connected rules, ways of doing things, and habits. These all push people back to the old ways. Even skilled people can’t keep changing if all company systems support the old ways.

So, big change is mostly a problem of culture, not a problem of tools or skills. Any change you bring in – like new ways of thinking or working – is just the start. The real work is to change the systems and rules that build your company’s culture.

So, learn how your current culture keeps itself strong. Look at HR rules, how people get promoted, and how meetings are run. Also, look at how money is spent and the office space. These are not just background things. They actively help or stop change. If your systems still reward old ways, your change project will fail, even with good training.

This means you need to change these systems smartly. You need people on your change team who can put new ways of working into the company’s daily operations. This needs a special team setup. You need experts in the new ways you are bringing in. But you also need system experts. They must be skilled and trusted to change HR rules, career paths, and how tools are approved. They should also help change how people talk and how decisions are made.

Think of it like a virus. The content experts bring the new ideas, like DNA. The system experts create ways to link to your old company processes. They put the change right into how things actually work.

This is hard work. You need to be very strong, understand people’s feelings, and be patient with your plan. People who like the old systems will fight you. You will find many slow, difficult rules everywhere. To get past these problems, you need to make sure people, ways of working, and places all work together, not against each other.

Companies naturally fight big changes because they are made to stay stable. Your job is to slowly change things without breaking them. You must change the system little by little. Until the culture itself starts to support the new way of working, not the old.

Blink 5 – Protect your teams to protect change

Now you’ve shown change as a product. You started small with a strong team. You built a special brand. You began to smartly change your company systems. But here’s another mistake most leaders make: they don’t give enough help to the change team itself.

Companies have like an ‘immune system’. When you bring in something new, others will try to stop it. Middle managers worry about losing power. Finance asks about money. Legal raises concerns about problems. HR points out rule clashes. These are not bad people trying to stop you. They are just doing their jobs. Their job is to keep things stable and safe for the company.

These forces will stop your change team unless you protect them well.

First, you need strong support from top leaders. Not just words, but real help. This means a senior leader who will protect your money, remove slow rules when needed, and let your team say no to things that hurt your brand. Symbolic help is a leader who talks about your project, but is not there when you have problems. Real help is a leader who makes things easier for you.

Second, give your change project as much help as your best product. This is not a small project people do in their free time. It needs full-time team members. They need clear roles, a smart leader, and to be truly responsible. If you treat change as less important than products that make money, everyone else in the company will too.

Third, you need the right people for your change team. This work needs people who are very strong, understand feelings, and are patient with their plan. You need strong people, not weak ones. Find people who can work when things are unclear, fight against pressure, and stay focused when others are confused. Knowing the change method is important, but being tough and determined is more important.

Fourth, build a ‘leadership shield’ around your change team. This shield protects the team from company resistance. But it still lets them work well with the rest of the company. The shield handles difficult company politics. It helps the change team talk to leaders. It gives your team time to work deeply without stops.

Think about new companies. The best ones fiercely protect their main team at the start. They say no to things that take attention away. They stay focused. They make sure the team has all it needs to prove the idea before growing. Your change project needs this same protection.

Without this protection, even the best change plan will fail. Your team will use all its energy fighting slow rules, instead of helping other teams. But with it, change can happen, and real, important change can start.

Final summary

In this summary of Irresistible Change by Phil Gilbert, you learned to stop telling people to change. Instead, sell change like a good product that your teams want to choose. Show your idea works with one team that gets full support. Then grow it. Build trust by having full success, not just trying a little bit. Make a special brand that shows joining in is a sign of being good. Protect this brand by carefully choosing who can be part of it. Change the company systems that keep old ways alive, not just individual skills. This is because lasting change is about culture, not just tools or skills. Give your change team money and protection, like your best money-making product. Give them the power and support they need to do well.

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